Bonding with a stray dog requires patience, understanding, and a cautious approach. Remember, stray dogs have often had challenging experiences and may be wary of humans.
To establish a connection, you must be calm but cautious (Reference 1). It's crucial to observe the dog's behaviour (Reference 2), as signs of fear or aggression mean you should not approach.
Steps for Building Trust
Building trust is a gradual process. Here are key techniques based on the provided references:
- Avoid Eye Contact and Move Slowly: Direct eye contact can be perceived as a threat by a fearful dog. Moving slowly and avoiding staring helps the dog feel less intimidated (Reference 3).
- Crouching: Getting down to their level can make you appear less imposing than standing tall (Reference 5).
- Hold Out Your Hand: Offer your hand, palm down and fingers slightly curled, as a non-threatening way for the dog to sniff you and initiate contact if they choose (Reference 4).
- Getting Their Attention: Once the dog seems comfortable, you can try gentle ways of getting their attention, perhaps with soft noises, without being startling (Reference 6).
- Petting: If the dog approaches and shows signs of being comfortable, you can attempt petting, starting with areas like the shoulder or chest, avoiding the top of the head initially (Reference 7).
Understanding Stray Dogs
As highlighted, stray dogs can be wild and they often haven't had great experiences with humans (Reference 2). This underscores the need for patience and sensitivity during any interaction. Your goal is to show them you are not a threat.
Long-Term Bonding
Ultimately, finding a way to a stray's heart (Reference 8) involves consistently positive interactions. This often implies providing food (if safe and feasible) and demonstrating kindness and reliability over time, which helps build lasting trust and a bond.