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What age is it normal to come out?

Published in Coming Out Age 1 min read

There is no "normal" age to come out; it's a deeply personal decision that varies for everyone.

While there's no set age, trends indicate evolving timelines for self-discovery and sharing one's identity:

  • Early Awareness: According to the reference, individuals may begin to explore their LGBTQ+ identity as early as elementary school.
  • Increasingly Younger Coming Out: It's becoming more common for individuals to come out between the ages of 11-14.
  • Historical Context: Historically, many people didn't come out until their mid-teens or even their 20s.

Ultimately, the right time to come out is when an individual feels safe, ready, and supported. Many people start by coming out to a close friend before telling their parents. The decision is influenced by personal circumstances, cultural factors, and individual comfort levels.