How Do I Know If I Am Her Crush?

It can be tricky to know for sure if someone has a crush on you, but looking for consistent patterns of behavior can offer some strong clues.

Here's a breakdown of potential signs she might have a crush on you:

Physical Cues

Catching her staring: This is a major indicator. Does she frequently glance your way, and quickly look away if you catch her? Consistent eye contact, or quickly broken eye contact, is a strong sign.
Blushing or fidgeting: Does she blush when you talk to her or are near her? Does she become noticeably more fidgety, like playing with her hair, adjusting her clothes, or tapping her foot?
Proximity seeking: Does she often find excuses to be near you? Does she sit next to you whenever possible, even if other seats are available?
Mirroring: Does she unconsciously mimic your behavior, such as your posture, gestures, or even your speech patterns?
Physical touch (subtle): Does she find excuses for light physical contact, such as lightly touching your arm when laughing or bumping into you "accidentally"?

Giggling or nervous laughter: Does she giggle or laugh nervously, even when you're not being particularly funny?
Asking personal questions: Does she show genuine interest in your life, hobbies, and opinions? Does she ask follow-up questions to learn more about you?
Teasing (playful): Does she tease you playfully, but in a friendly, non-mean-spirited way?
Hints about her availability: Does she talk about how she's single or expresses a desire to have a boyfriend?
Asking about your crushes or dating life: This can be a way for her to gauge your interest in her or to signal her own interest in someone.
Remembering small details: Does she remember small details about things you've told her, even weeks or months later? This shows she pays attention to you and values what you say.

Making excuses to spend time together: Does she suggest activities you could do together, even if it's just studying or grabbing coffee?
Initiating conversations: Does she frequently initiate conversations with you, whether in person or online?
Increased communication: Does she text or message you more often than she does other people?
Positive body language: Does she smile frequently when she's around you? Does she maintain an open and welcoming posture?
Her friends act differently: Do her friends seem to know something you don't? Are they teasing her when you're around, or subtly trying to push you two together?

Context is key: Consider the overall context of your relationship with her. Is she generally a friendly and outgoing person, or is she usually more reserved?
Cultural differences: Be mindful of cultural norms regarding displays of affection.
Don't jump to conclusions: One or two of these signs alone might not mean anything, but a consistent pattern of multiple signs is a stronger indicator.
Trust your gut: Ultimately, trust your intuition. If you feel like she might have a crush on you, she probably does.

Ultimately, the best way to know for sure is to get to know her better and see if her actions and words align with your feelings. Good luck!