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Is MS OK for Married?

Published in Etiquette Titles 1 min read

Yes, using "Ms." is perfectly acceptable for married women.

"Ms." is a title of courtesy that does not indicate marital status. It is a neutral and respectful option suitable for any adult woman, regardless of whether she is married, single, divorced, or widowed. Using "Ms." is especially appropriate when you are unsure of a woman's preferred title.

Here's a breakdown:

  • Neutrality: "Ms." avoids assumptions about marital status, making it a safe choice in professional or formal settings.
  • Respect: It demonstrates respect for the woman's autonomy to define herself.
  • Uncertainty: If you don't know whether a woman is married or her preferred title, "Ms." is the most respectful option.

In contrast:

  • "Mrs." specifically indicates that a woman is married.
  • "Miss" usually refers to an unmarried woman.

Ultimately, the best practice is to use a woman's preferred title. If you're unsure, "Ms." is a widely accepted and appropriate option.