A proper handshake with a woman involves a firm grip, similar to how you would shake hands with anyone else.
Understanding the Handshake
The goal is to convey confidence and respect. It's not about being overly forceful, but rather about a solid and intentional gesture.
Steps for a Good Handshake:
- Extend Your Hand: Offer your right hand, palm facing slightly inward.
- Make Contact: Firmly grasp her hand. Aim for a full palm-to-palm connection.
- Apply Firmness: Maintain a firm grip. The reference video emphasizes that a firm handshake is key. Avoid being limp or crushing her hand.
- Pump Once or Twice: Give a brief, decisive pump of the hands.
- Make Eye Contact: Look her in the eyes while shaking hands. This shows respect and engagement.
- Speak Clearly: In the reference video, they recommend using complete sentences when greeting and saying "how are you?"
- Release: Release her hand after a brief moment.
Key Things to Remember
- Be confident: A handshake is a form of greeting and introduction, and your confidence will show through.
- Adapt: Be aware of context, if she offers a weaker grip adjust your handshake to match.
- Be Genuine: The most important element is being authentic and respectful in your interaction.
Handshake Etiquette
A good handshake isn't solely about physical mechanics. It's about communication and respect:
Aspect | Description |
---|---|
Firmness | A firm handshake demonstrates confidence, but not too hard. |
Duration | Keep the handshake brief, avoid lingering too long. |
Eye Contact | Make direct eye contact while shaking hands. |
Verbal Greeting | It is good practice to use clear and complete sentences. For example, saying "Good morning, how are you doing?" |
Personal Space | Be aware of personal space and make sure you are not standing too close. |