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What Do You Call a Person Who Has an Ongoing Difficulty Throwing Away or Parting With Possessions?

Published in Hoarding Behavior 3 mins read

A person who has an ongoing difficulty throwing away or parting with possessions, often accumulating a large number of items regardless of their actual value, may be described as a hoarder or someone exhibiting hoarding disorder. This condition is characterized by a persistent struggle to discard items, stemming from a deeply held belief that these possessions are needed or must be saved.

Understanding Hoarding Disorder

Hoarding disorder is a recognized mental health condition that goes beyond simple collecting or being messy. It involves a significant and ongoing challenge in letting go of items, leading to clutter that can severely impact a person's living space, safety, and overall quality of life. The core issue is not laziness or indifference to clutter, but rather a profound emotional attachment to possessions and intense distress at the thought of discarding them.

Characteristics of Hoarding Behavior

Individuals who exhibit hoarding behavior often display several key characteristics:

  • Persistent Difficulty Discarding: They find it extremely challenging to throw away or part with possessions, regardless of the item's perceived value or usefulness. This difficulty is ongoing and pervasive.
  • Belief in Need to Save: A strong underlying belief often drives this behavior—that they will need these items in the future, or that the items possess unique sentimental value, even if others see them as junk.
  • Emotional Distress: The mere thought of getting rid of items can cause significant emotional distress, anxiety, or sadness. This distress makes the act of decluttering extremely difficult and often leads to avoidance.
  • Accumulation of Items: Over time, this difficulty in discarding leads to the gradual accumulation of a vast number of items. These items can include anything from newspapers, clothes, and documents to old food containers and broken appliances.
  • Regardless of Value: The items accumulated often lack any real monetary, practical, or sentimental value to others. The sheer volume and indiscriminate nature of the accumulation are key indicators.
  • Impairment in Functioning: The accumulation of items can create unmanageable clutter in living spaces, making areas like kitchens, bedrooms, and bathrooms unusable. This can lead to unsafe living conditions, social isolation, and significant distress for the individual and their family.

Differentiating Hoarding from Collecting

It's important to distinguish hoarding from other behaviors like collecting or being frugal:

Feature Hoarding Disorder Collecting
Organization Items are typically disorganized, creating clutter. Items are usually organized, displayed, or cataloged.
Item Value Accumulation of items regardless of their actual value. Focus on specific, valuable, or themed items.
Emotional State Distress associated with discarding items. Pleasure derived from acquiring and organizing items.
Impact on Life Clutter significantly impairs living spaces and life. Enhances quality of life or serves as a hobby.

When to Seek Support

If the difficulty in throwing away possessions leads to significant clutter, interferes with daily activities, causes distress, or creates unsafe living conditions, it may indicate a hoarding disorder. Support from mental health professionals can be beneficial in addressing the underlying issues and developing strategies for managing the condition.