No, physical interaction with your fiancé is not permissible in Islam before marriage.
Based on Islamic teachings, a couple who are engaged but not yet married are still considered non-mahram to each other. This means they are not allowed to have physical contact, be alone together, or engage in other acts that are not considered appropriate between non-mahram individuals.
Here's a breakdown of what this means:
- No physical contact: This includes holding hands, hugging, kissing, or any other form of physical touch. The reference clearly states that no physical interaction is allowed. (10-Jul-2018)
- Maintaining distance: Just because you're engaged doesn't change the rules about male-female interactions in Islam.
- Focus on getting to know each other: The engagement period is meant for the couple to get to know each other better through proper channels, such as conversations, family interactions, and supervised outings.
| Aspect | Permitted Before Marriage | Explanation |
|---|---|---|
| Physical Contact | Not Permitted | Any form of physical touch is strictly prohibited. |
| Being Alone | Not Permitted | A couple should not be alone in a secluded place where there is no supervision. |
| General Interaction | Permitted with boundaries | Interaction through conversations, supervised meetings, and discussions about the future is allowed. |
| Intimacy | Not Permitted | Any kind of intimate act between the engaged couple is forbidden. |
Following these guidelines is seen as a way to show respect for Islamic principles and to maintain the sanctity of marriage. Engaging in physical intimacy prior to marriage is considered a transgression. This adherence to boundaries is thought to lead to a stronger and more blessed marital relationship when the time comes.
