Where to Hold a Girl When Kissing?

Where you place your hands while kissing depends largely on the context and the level of intimacy. There's no single "right" answer, but rather a range of appropriate options. Consider the stage of your relationship and the overall mood.

• Gentle & Romantic: Gently cupping her face, with your thumbs resting on her cheeks, is a classic and intimate gesture. (As mentioned in the YouTube video, this creates a personal and affectionate feel). This conveys care and attention. Alternatively, holding her hand, gently caressing her neck or back of her head, or resting a hand on her waist are all softly romantic options.

• More Intimate: As the kiss deepens, you might gently hold her closer by placing your hands on her waist or lower back. (Referencing Reddit and Quora discussions, some women enjoy hands on their hips, lower back, or even their shoulders/arms depending on the level of intimacy).

• Making Out: During more passionate kissing, more options become available. However, always ensure you're reading her body language and respecting her boundaries. The placement of your hands should always be consensual.

• What to Avoid: Avoid grabbing or handling her inappropriately. Always respect her personal space and comfort level.

Reading Her Cues:

The most important aspect of hand placement is reading her cues. If she seems uncomfortable with your hand placement, adjust accordingly. Her body language will indicate what feels right to her.

Examples from Sources:

• YouTube Video: Specifically suggests cupping her ear with your hand and thumb on her cheek.
• Reddit & Quora: Mentions various preferences, including back of the head, neck, face, back, waist, and hands.

It's crucial to remember that every individual is different, and what one person finds comfortable, another may not. Communication and consent are key to a positive experience for both partners.