Avoid these common kissing mistakes for a more enjoyable experience:
Don't Overthink It
One of the biggest mistakes is getting too caught up in technique. Relax and let the moment flow naturally. Don't overthink your next move, or how much tongue is "appropriate"—focus on connecting with your partner. As the Guardian article points out, bypassing the "almost" kiss and going straight to a comfortable level of intimacy is key. (https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/apr/24/a-moment-on-the-lips-the-dos-and-donts-of-kissing)
Avoid These Physical Mistakes
- Tongue on First Contact: Avoid a sudden tongue invasion. Start with a soft, gentle lip-to-lip contact before introducing tongue.
- Excessive Tongue: Too much tongue can be overwhelming. Find a comfortable balance; it's not a tongue wrestling match.
- Excessive Saliva: Control your saliva production. No one wants a slobbery kiss.
- Ignoring Body Language: Don't forget the rest of your body. Maintain some physical closeness and comfort, but avoid overly stiff or awkward posture.
- Playing with Position: Avoid constantly shifting positions or angles during a kiss. Find a comfortable position and stay there.
- Extreme Mouth Movement: Keep your mouth movements relatively moderate. Avoid overly wide, exaggerated motions.
Mind Your Manners
- Don't Forget the "Almost": Don't hesitate to initiate; it shouldn't always lead to a full-on make-out session. A gentle, soft kiss can be just as meaningful.
- Don't Focus on the Next Move: Let the kiss dictate the next move, rather than pre-planning. It should be organic and reciprocal.
By avoiding these common pitfalls, you can enhance your kissing experience and make it more enjoyable for both you and your partner.
