Adam didn't leave his first wife, Lilith. Rather, Lilith left Adam to gain her independence.
Lilith's Departure
The story explains the reason for Lilith's departure:
- Equality Dispute: Lilith refused to lie beneath Adam during sexual intercourse. She believed that because they were both created equally from the dust of the earth, she should not be subservient to him.
- Seeking Independence: After Adam disagreed with her, Lilith abandoned the Garden of Eden. This indicates that she valued her autonomy and freedom, and she chose to leave rather than submit to Adam's demands.
In summary, Adam did not initiate the separation. Lilith chose to leave due to a fundamental disagreement about equality and a desire for personal independence.