A relationship structure involving two couples can be called a quad or, more specifically, a closed quad. This type of relationship falls under the broader umbrella term of polyamory.
Understanding the Terminology
When two established couples form a single, interconnected relationship involving all four individuals, it is typically referred to as a quad.
- Quad: Refers to a relationship structure involving exactly four people.
- Closed Quad: Indicates that the four people in the quad are exclusively in a relationship with each other and not seeking additional partners outside of the group.
This contrasts with other polyamorous structures or relationship styles.
What is Polyamory?
As referenced, polyamory is a non-monogamous relationship style where people mutually agree to have multiple sexual or romantic relationships simultaneously. This differs significantly from monogamy, which is the practice of having only one romantic or sexual partner, and is the most practiced type of relationship in the United States.
A quad is just one specific configuration that can exist within the diverse world of polyamory.
Types of Polyamorous Structures (Examples)
While a quad is a specific structure, polyamory encompasses many forms:
- Vee: Three people where one person is romantically or sexually involved with two other people, but those two other people are not romantically or sexually involved with each other.
- Triad: Three people who are all in a romantic or sexual relationship with each other.
- Parallel Polyamory: Relationships exist independently, with partners having little or no contact with each other's other partners.
- Kitchen Table Polyamory: Partners and their partners are comfortable interacting and may even form a supportive network (like gathering around a kitchen table).
- Polycule: A network of people connected through their romantic or sexual relationships within a polyamorous structure. A quad is a small polycule of four people.
Key Considerations for a Quad Relationship
Entering a quad relationship involves unique dynamics and requires open communication.
- Communication: Essential for navigating complex emotions, schedules, and expectations among four people.
- Boundaries: Clearly defined boundaries regarding intimacy, time, and external relationships are crucial, especially in a closed quad.
- Equality: Ensuring all individuals feel equally valued and respected within the dynamic.
Understanding these structures and the principles of polyamory, such as consent, trust, and communication, is key to navigating such relationships successfully.
