Yes, if you feel it's the right moment, take the leap and ask him to marry you! Societal norms shouldn't dictate when you propose, regardless of your gender identity.
Here's why you should consider proposing if you're feeling it:
- It's your relationship: The decision of who proposes should be based on what feels right for you and your partner, not on tradition.
- Empowerment and Agency: Proposing is an empowering act. You are taking control of your future and demonstrating your commitment in a bold way.
- He might be waiting for you: He might be shy or unsure if you're ready. Your proposal could be a welcome surprise.
- It's a conversation starter: Your proposal will definitely be a unique and memorable event, sparking conversation and admiration.
- Tradition is changing: There's growing acceptance of women proposing to men. An ancient Irish folktale even encourages women to propose! This shift shows that times are changing.
Ultimately, the decision rests with you. Ask yourself these questions:
- Am I ready for marriage?
- Do I believe my partner is ready for marriage with me?
- Can I see myself spending my life with this person?
If the answers are "yes," then take a deep breath and consider planning your proposal!
