Yes, a guy can ignore a girl he likes. This behavior, while seemingly contradictory, can stem from various reasons.
Reasons Why a Guy Might Ignore a Girl He Likes:
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Fear of Rejection: Many men avoid expressing their feelings due to a fear of rejection. Ignoring the girl can be a way to protect themselves from potential hurt. This is supported by various Quora threads and articles discussing male anxieties about approaching women. Quora highlights this fear as a primary motivator.
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Insecurity and Self-Doubt: Some men might believe they are unworthy of the girl's attention, leading them to self-sabotage by ignoring her. They might feel that initiating contact would only lead to disappointment.
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Playing it Cool: Conversely, some men might believe that playing hard to get will increase their attractiveness. This tactic, although often ineffective, is sometimes employed based on perceived social dynamics. Reddit discussions on dating advice (Reddit) touch upon experienced men using this strategy.
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Relationship Status and Timing: A man may like a girl but not be ready for a relationship, leading him to avoid her to avoid potentially confusing or hurting her. The reference citing "He doesn't wanna be in a relationship though he likes the girl" directly supports this.
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Social Anxiety or Awkwardness: Approaching someone you like can be daunting. Some men struggle with social anxiety and might find ignoring the girl easier than navigating an interaction. Quora points out the challenges men face in approaching women they are interested in.
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Misinterpreting Signals: The man may misinterpret the girl's actions or cues, leading him to believe she is uninterested, resulting in him withdrawing.
