When a man "makes a pass" at a woman, it means he is doing or saying something to clearly show he wants to begin a romantic or sexual relationship with her.
Here's a breakdown of what this can entail:
Understanding "Making a Pass"
- Definition: According to the reference, "to make a pass" is an idiom meaning "to do or say something that clearly shows one wants to begin a romantic or sexual relationship with (someone)." This implies an active attempt to initiate an intimate connection.
Examples of Making a Pass
| Action | Description |
|---|---|
| Verbal | A man directly expresses interest in a romantic or sexual encounter using flirtatious or suggestive language |
| Physical | A man initiates physical touch that is intended to be more than friendly, such as prolonged eye contact or touching |
| Non-verbal | A man displays flirty body language to show attraction, like suggestive glances or moving closer |
| Overly Complimentary | He makes overly suggestive comments about the woman's appearance or personality |
Key aspects of "Making a Pass"
- Intentionality: The actions are deliberate and designed to convey romantic or sexual interest.
- Initiation: It implies the man is actively trying to start something.
- Clarity: The intent is reasonably clear to the recipient, even if not explicitly stated.
Context Matters
- Social norms: What is considered "making a pass" can vary across cultures and social situations.
- Individual perception: What one person sees as a pass, another might view as just being friendly.
- Consent: Making a pass is not an invitation to unwanted behavior. It does not circumvent the need for consent and respectful interaction.
