Damon Salvatore ultimately chose Bonnie Bennett over Elena Gilbert because he had developed a profound love and deep care for Bonnie. Their bond grew significantly, particularly during the critical time when The Other Side was on the verge of collapsing.
During this period, Damon and Bonnie formed an incredibly close relationship. They endured shared challenges and experiences that solidified their connection, to the point where they even held hands as The Other Side faced imminent collapse. This intimate moment was a testament to how close they had become and the strong emotional ties that had formed between them. It was this deep-seated affection and concern for Bonnie that led Damon to prioritize her when faced with the difficult decision between her and Elena.
