A married principal bridesmaid is formally called a matron of honour.
While the term "bridesmaid" typically refers to any member of the bridal party assisting the bride, a specific title is given to the chief or principal bridesmaid if she is married.
Understanding the Matron of Honour Role
- Designated Leader: The matron of honour is the married counterpart to a "maid of honour," a title reserved for an unmarried principal bridesmaid. She holds the leading role among the bridesmaids, often taking on significant responsibilities in wedding planning and support for the bride.
- Traditional Context: Historically, bridesmaids were chosen from young, unwed women of marriageable age. However, modern wedding traditions are more inclusive, and married women frequently serve in bridal parties, sometimes as the chief attendant.
- General Role: For married women who are part of the bridal party but are not designated as the principal or chief bridesmaid, they are generally still referred to as "bridesmaids." The title "matron of honour" specifically applies to the leading role.
Key Titles in a Bridal Party
The following table summarizes the common titles for principal bridesmaids based on their marital status:
| Role/Status | Title | Description |
|---|---|---|
| Principal Bridesmaid | ||
| If unmarried | Maid of Honour | The leading attendant who is not married. |
| If married | Matron of Honour | The leading attendant who is married. |
| Other Bridal Party Members | ||
| Any marital status | Bridesmaid | A general member of the bridal party who assists the bride. |
| Male equivalent | Man of Honour/Best Man | A male leading attendant, typically either married or unmarried. |
